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Submitted by just_jay last June 27th 2007, 05:06 AM i'm so scared of coming out, if i come out i can enjoy male company with people knowing i'm into guys, it will be easier to get boyfriends and i won't feel like i'm living a lie anymore, but if i do it's like i may aswell kill myself lol (dw i'm nt gna commit suicide :|) but like, life would be so much harder, it's like when i try to come out the closet peer pressure just locks the door to the closet and throws itself away.
i wish we could live in a world where it doesn't matter, where people would treat you the same even though you like dick :|
why can't we just live in an easier environment, i reckon that if we did, most guys would turn out to be at least bisexual.
why should peer pressure get in my way to living a happier life?
why should my family's perceptions of gay people be so strong?
there's a guy i like, and i kinnda think he likes me too but it's so hard to tell, i can't think of a way of coming out to him without him blurting it out or without him judging me.
but what if he likes me? what if everything will be fine?
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 grizzlybear135 | | I know just how hard it can be to come out. I did not come out until I was 27 almost 28. And man let me tell you something you don't want that. For all those years I hide in the closet lying to myself about being Gay. I went through hell from the time I was 17 until I did finally come out. So for over ten years I was the meanest Bastard you ever wanted to meet I had panic attacks on a regular basis I was miserable to say the least. One day I woke up to the regular events going to work and etc.. But one thing had changed I just did not give a fuck what people thought anymore, I was going to be happy no matter if it killed me or not. And from that day on I am the happiest guy you could ever meet. I may not be rich but I love being how and who I am GAY. The moral of my story is this be HAPPY fuck what others think it's your life, live it to the fullest. I moved away from where I use to live, I now reside in Florida where I have met a wonderful loving man that I will be with for the rest of my life. If that guy disses you fuck him to, there are plenty of guys out there. |
 Krazy_mickle | | yeh i kno how u feel lol.
i havnt exactly come out yet,
jst a few of my friends kno nd im
plannin 2 come out soon but it is scary
u shud kno tht ur friends will accept u nd
if they dnt thn ther not ur friends!
nd about this guy..get a friend 2 check him
out nd see wht they think. im in the same situation,
i like a guy at work tht i like but idk if he likes me.
nd trust me..once a few friends kno tht ur gay
then ul feel better about it nd happier wth urself.
since i told my friends u never see me w/o a
smile on my face nd now im not afraid 2 jst be myself!
dnt let peer pressure get in the way cos tht'll all go away
eventually and most people are fine wth ppl being gay now,
its only a few dickheads and religious folk tht think its sick!
xxxx |
| Novetrix | | Hun, just think of it this way:
When the African Americans became part of our culture, there were (and still are) the idiots who thought that they'd "disrupt our very ways of life" ...Well, now, they ARE part of our lives... And now that we understand that they're worth more than slaves (as our forefathers thought), we've been able to work with them for YEARS....
...Well, now it's the gay's turn. We're not RELATIVELY new to our culture... We're just more predominant about letting people know "we're here, we like what we like." Now, people are feeling threatened, because we're once again "endangering the very ways of our culture" ...It'll only be a matter of time until people finally start accepting us more wholely... SURe, there'll be that asshole here or there who couldn't give a rip either way, but... Once the majority of our populous (which'll be soon, I feel) accepts homosexuals completely, that'll be an easier time.
Until then, it WILL be hard... It was for me. Most of my friends, and my own father, didn't talk to me for months. It'll be hard, but y'know what? It'll make you MUCH stronger, in a MUCH better way because of it; we have been able to let the world know that we were different, despite all the dangers we would be putting ourselves into... That's bravery, if I do say so myself.
As for the boy you like, Kinda... Ease into the conversation. Y'know? I guess, be like, "What would you do if one of your friends said he liked you?" ...Okay, don't be that obvious xD but... Y'know, if he feels uncomfortable (in a straight way) talking about it, then you know.
If you DO decide to tell him... Well, time'll tell. If he accepts you, bravo! If not, well, if he's a TRUE friend, then he'll understand, explain to you, and as long as you understand that you're not for him, then you'll be fine as friends.
It depends on the male... Some'll be okay with it, gay or straight... Some'll push you away after that point. It's all up to you, and whether you think it'll be a good move or not. Like I said: if he's a good enough friend, he won't push you away ever.
Take that to heart, hun, and you'll do fine :3
novetrix@yahoo.com |
| chucksrul17 | | lol, i just told the guy i like that i was bi, he was really cool about it. I kinda wanna tell him how i feel about him too. that im prolly gonna do some day soon |
 mark | | i kno how u feel everyone i kno is homophobic and also im scared 4 my life because i think if i told my dad he would KILL me and i mean kill me |
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