hey this is my first post, and i have serious problem i think i'm gay. But my fam. is very religous and they believe that is agaisnt GOD'S wishes.
I need help PLZ!!!!!
Give yourself time. And give them time. You still have a life ahead of you. Are you sure to face the consequences? It's not a religious issue anymore. It's you. God loves you for who you are. And if your parents tell you that God doesn't forgive people like us, how can He save everyone else? We're all imperfect. Your family has to brace your "imperfections". I don't even see it as a blemish. Live your life to the fullest. You only get one life, you know that. :)
I can help you with that, i belive that you can be gay and still be in the blessings of god, it speaks about sodamn and gommarah and the lord speaks against it, but the fact of being gay does not mean you are going to hell, even if you have sex, it is not the unforgivable sin, that would be known as "blasfemy".
I can prove my last point by telling you that blasfemy is the out-and-out dening that god exists and truthfully whole-heartedly speaking against him and doing your best to lead others away from him, on purpose(after you have been told and understand that you are doing so)
Iif you did not care what god thought about it , didn't care what your family thought about it, you still wouldn't be going to hell. I myself am a so-so Christian whom loves god, but i have reserched "the word", to find out where i stand.
Reverend Mother Teresa
you can either tell or don't but if you fear that family may abandon you they won't you can besilent and have you fun and they be none the wizer or if you feel you must tell the family try with one member and see how that goes well if so then tell Mom and Dad
Being gay is nothing to be worried over if you parent love they will appreciate you for who you are! if the didnt they wouldnt have bothered to get in bed with each other and make you. This is athing that you have to be okay with yourself first, if you are gay, or bi or some other third thing, you have to accept yourself, then when you accept yourself only then can others accept you. if not then fuck em
Before i was afraid like you caring what others think about how i feel. But i knew that god loved me. so i loved myself more. And my mom took it perty well. she accepts me for me.
And luckily my boyfriend does too!
i hope it helped:)))))))))))
You have to make your time and find the right place to do it. I believe I am gay but I still haven't told my parents or friends. It is hard to decide something like that since it is going to change your whole life, at least in their eyes. Stay strong. You will find the time to let them know and you will also know when that time is for you. There is no formula that let's you calculate this so just trust your gut feelings and you will be fine.
