Dear Readers,
First of all I'd like to say that none of you answered my other question, should I come out? And my best friend didn't know I was gay till after 4 years so you have an idea of how hard it'll be for me. There is also this girl in my biology class and she is one of those people who think I'm gay and I just couldn't tell her because she has friends that make fun of me and I wasn't sure if she really wanted to know or she wanted to have another reason to make fun of me. When we sit next to each other we end up talking like we are best friend but I just can't tell her and I don't know how to tell her.
In my Language Arts class we have to write a ballad and we can use other songs and I was thinking of using Rihanna's Unfaithful and I have only a little bit right now, but if you've heard the song can you help me with it. Right now all I have is:
Memories of you.
Running through my head,
as I try to fall asleep.
I know it's a little lame, but I'd like it to be about Marcus but I have no idea of what to do.
I think I might be in love with Marcus. I like him for his personality. He's smart, funny, is not afraid to do what he wants, isn't afraid to do what he wants to do, and he's short, and I know what you're thinking why does he like short peope? Well if you think about it most short people are cute.
i think tht if u feel redy 2 tell ppl tht ur gay then u shud come out! but tell sum1 tht u can trust 100% not 2 tell ppl first.
also i think tht if u love this marcus thn ur songs not lame its very cute :D
if u like him enough thn talk 2 him about it! he might feel the same way! x
If Marcus as you say is not afraid to do what he wants then I there is a good chance that he is not gay. I can't say that for sure without more information. I think it is a given that young males like Marcus are sexually active. Any guy who is not afraid to do what he wants will make the moves necessary to satisfy himself sexually. The question is who does his cock get hard for? Is he gay, bi or straight? If there are people who think you are gay and Marcus is in the same circles then he must know the rumors. If he were gay or bi I think he would make a play for you.
I think you should first come out to the girl you are talking about. Coming out means you have to accept the fact that people will know you as gay. Marcus may not become you boyfriend but you will be surprised what will happen once it is known that you are gay. It will be good, bad and ugly but you will find going to bed with another guy is better than only stroking your cock and thinking about it.
yes i think you should come out , but tell someone that you can really really trust first then wait a while to see if they tell anyone. then tell friends you dont go to school with so that rumors dont go all around school , then when your ready ask marcus out, im sure you have gaydar and you can tell if hes gay or not , so go for it
first you dont have to come out and tell everyone that you are gay. it is totaly up to you. do what you are comfortable doing. second, if you really like this guy marcus for who he is you should tell him that you are gay.
